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Detroit Recovery Program's Humility Statement

We pledge to do better.

I’m sorry for all the barriers you confront when trying to access help.
I’m sorry for contradictory “sobriety” and “active use” requirements you encounter when trying to access services.
I’m sorry for the harm that has come to you, your family, your unborn children, and your community when you have not been provided services on demand.
I apologize for expecting that you will provide all the motivation to initiate recovery when I have assumed no responsibility for enhancing your readiness for recovery.

I am sorry for creating unrealistic expectations of you.
I’m sorry for provider success statistics that have misled you and your family.
I’m sorry that I have discharged you from treatment for becoming symptomatic. I’m even more sorry, though, for abandoning you at your time of greatest vulnerability. And I am sorry for how this failure has contributed to the heartbreak of your loved ones.
I am sorry for abandoning you when you have left treatment, either successfully or unsuccessfully.
I am sorry for the irritation in my voice when you have returned following a set-back because you didn’t do everything that I told you to do.
I am sorry for my arrogance when I’ve assumed that I am the expert of your life.
I am sorry for privately finding satisfaction in your failure because it reinforces the fallacy that I know best and if you just do as I say, you’ll recover.
I am sorry for not celebrating as enthusiastically your successes when you have achieved them through a different pathway or style then me.
I am sorry for being a silent co-conspirator for the stigma that has resulted in systems of punishment and discriminatory policies and practices.
I’m sorry for turning you away from treatment because you’ve “been here too many times.”
I’m sorry for not referring you to different services when you have not responded to the services I offer.
I am sorry for allowing you to take the blame when treatment did not work instead of defending you because you received an inadequate dose and duration of care.

I am sorry for reaping the benefits of recovery yet failing to do everything I can to make sure those benefits are available to anyone, regardless of privilege, socio-economic status, education, employability, and criminal history.
I’m sorry for being an addiction professional who has not provided you with the recovery supports needed to sustain recovery. More importantly, I apologize for conspiring through silence and inaction with a system that ill prepares you to achieve success.
I’m sorry for not calling to check on you when you don’t show up for treatment. I’m sorry for not calling to support you after you leave treatment.
I’m sorry for letting society maintain the belief that you used again because you chose to.
I’m sorry for not fighting for adequate treatment and recovery support services. All persons with substance use disorders should be entitled to a minimum of five years of monitoring and recovery support services.

I’m sorry for not advocating for you to have opportunities to gain safe and supportive housing and non-exploitive employment.
I am sorry for being so self-centered that I only think about you in the context of treatment while failing to fully understand the environmental and social realities of your life and how they will impact your ability to initiate and sustain recovery.
I am deeply sorry to your loved ones who have been robbed of chances to have a healthy member of their family. I am deeply sorry to your community, who has been robbed of the gifts that your recovery could have brought them.
I’m sorry that systems of control and punishment has been the response to communities of color during drug epidemics.
I am sorry that through my silence and inaction that I have contributed to belief that persons with substance use disorders are criminals and should be punished.

I am sorry for not speaking as a Recovery Ally to families, friends, neighbors, colleagues, policy makers, and public officials about why I support recovery.
I’m sorry for all the things that I have left off this list because I’ve failed to regularly solicit your feedback about how effective I have been in supporting you in your recovery.
This sorrow is the foundation of my commitment to improve the accessibility, affordability, and quality of addiction treatment and recovery support services and to create the community space in which long-term personal and family recovery can flourish.

By: Chris Budnick